Good Relationship Don’t Just Happen

This is an Excerpt from my book “Walking In God’s Path Toward Your Destination Volume 2” Building A Personal Relationship With Him.

Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus.” (Colossians 1:28, KJV)


       Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together. That goes for personal or business. We as Christians have relationship with God. These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.”(Genesis 6:9, KJV) Relationship don’t just happen overnight. Relationship is a connection, association or an involvement. In any relationship start to blossoms you have to get to know the person. Building relationship is hard work and selfless act but it is worth the effort if you work at it.

When you are dating someone you are looking to get to know that person and hopefully start to be in a relationship. Relationship does not happen overnight. Relationship is about love, communication, time, trust, honesty and patience. Communication is the key components of relationship. Without communication you will not have a relationship. That is part of life. When you’re starting to date someone, you don’t jump straight into a relationship. First you need to go out on a date. When you go out on a date you will get a chance to know each others. You will both know what yours like and dislike. You will know about each others family, careers, hobbies and even religion beliefs. You do all of that by communicate with each others. If the person you are going on date with don’t want to talk to you then you are wasting your time. You also will have to spend some times with each others. If you want to be trusted then you have to be honest with each others. As you getting to know each other you while you are dating then you will know if that relationship will blossom are not. If that relationship does blossom then you will know that the both of you are falling in love with each other and that when you are in a relationship. When someone that you are dating tell you that we are seeing each others but we are not exclusive. Usually they don’t want to be in no relationship all they want from you is what you have to offer. At that point you should run away from that person and don’t look back. You deserve better do not settle for anything. If that person doesn’t have any respect for you then that is not the person for you. You deserve the same respect that you have given to them. Don’t let anybody tell you any difference. Another thing about being in a relationship with someone usually you will have things in common. You always will learn something new about each others. Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3, KJV)

Having relationship with God you have to put some work in it. You got to get to know him. You have to spend a lot of time with God daily. “Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.”(1 Corinthians 7:24, KJV) You get to know him by talking to him through prayers. You need to read your bible daily. There is so many way of reading God Words. You read bible the book itself. You can read the bible online. You now can read it on your IPhone or Android Phone. You can also read the bible on the IPad.  You can also get access on Social Media such as Facebook, YouTube and Google Plus. With technology today you can read the bible in different format. There are no excuses why you don’t read your Bible. Go to Church to fellowship with others Christians. God want us Christians to fellowship with one another. And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.” (Acts 2:42, KJV) With any good relationships it takes a lot of work. Its takes time and patience. You have to work at it and then you will develop good relationships either it is personal, professional or your relationship with God.

“Walking In God’s Path Toward Your Destination Volume 2″ Building A Personal Relationship With Him is available online for purchase at Amazon and Createspace. Here is the link to my website at Amazon Author Central:



2 thoughts on “Good Relationship Don’t Just Happen

    • Thank You Shawn for stopping by my Blog. If you like the blog the book is even better “Walking In God’s Path Toward Your Destination Volume 2” Building A Personal Relationship With Him. Be Blessed!

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