There is a time when you need to let go when you know that you should. Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. Love is worth fighting for, but you can’t be the only one fighting. People need to fight for you too. If they don’t then you will eventually have to move on and realize that what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Some relationships and situations just can’t be fixed. If you tried to force someone to go back to a toxic relationship then it will only get worse. Holding on is being brave but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. You need to make a decision to embrace the next step in your life. You can either hold on to the past or you can create your own happiness today. Never let success get to your head and never let failure get to your heart. Every day is a new beginning and a new ending. Embrace it, make the best of it, smile, and keep looking straight ahead. And don’t forget, a smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy right now; sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems going forward. And remember that your mind is your private sanctuary; do not allow the negative beliefs of others to occupy it. Your skin is your barrier; do not allow others to get under it. Take control of your boundaries and what you allow yourself to absorb from others. Never let someone’s opinion become your reality. Never sacrifice who you are because someone else has a problem with it. Love the person that who you are on the inside and on the outside. No one else has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power to do it. You are the only one who can create your happiness.
This is an excerpt from my book “Walking In God’s Path Toward Your Destination Volume 2” Building A Personal Relationship With Him. This book is available for purchase at Amazon in the format of print in Paperback and in Ebook format in Kindle Download in the genre of Christian. Here is the link for access to this book: