Relationships Just don’t Happen Overnight

Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together. That goes for personal or business. We as Christians have a relationship with God.“These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.”(Genesis 6:9, KJV) Relationship doesn’t just happen overnight. Relationship is a connection, association or an involvement. In any relationship start to blossoms you have to get to know the person. Building a relationship is hard work and selfless act but it is worth the effort if you work at it.

When you are dating someone you are looking to get to know that person and hopefully start to be in a relationship. The relationship does not happen overnight. A relationship is about love, communication, time, trust, honesty and patience. Communication is the key components of a relationship. Without communication you will not have a relationship. That is part of life. When you’re starting to date someone, you don’t jump straight into a relationship. First you need to go out on a date. When you go out on a date you will get a chance to know each others. You will both know what you like and dislike. You will know about each others family, careers, hobbies and even religion beliefs. You do all of that by communicating with each others. If the person you are going on a date with don’t want to talk to you then you are wasting your time. You also will have to spend some times with each others. If you want to be trusted then you have to be honest with each others. As you get to know each other while you are dating then you will know if that relationship will blossom are not. If that relationship does blossom then you will know that the both of you are falling in love with each other and that when you are in a relationship. When someone that you are dating tell you that we are seeing each others but we are not exclusive. Usually they don’t want to be in no relationship all they want from you is what you have to offer. At that point you should run away from that person and don’t look back. You deserve better do not settle for anything. If that person doesn’t have any respect for you then that is not the person for you. You deserve the same respect that you have given to them. Don’t let anybody tell you any different. Another thing about being in a relationship with someone usually you will have things in common. You always will learn something new about each others. Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3, KJV)

Having a relationship with God you have to put some work in it. You got to get to know him. You have to spend a lot of time with God daily. “Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.”(1 Corinthians 7:24, KJV) You get to know him by talking to him through prayers. You need to read your bible daily. There are so many ways of reading God Words. You read the bible the book itself. You can read the bible online. You now can read it on your iPhone or Android Phone. You can also read the bible on the iPad.  You can also get access on Social Media such as Facebook, YouTube and Google Plus. With technology today you can read the bible in different format. There are no excuses why you don’t read your Bible. Go to Church to fellowship with other Christians. God wants us Christians to fellowship with one another. “And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.” (Acts 2:42, KJV) With any good relationships it takes a lot of work. It takes time and patience. You have to work at it and then you will develop good relationships either it is personal, professional or your relationship with God.

This is an excerpt from my book “Walking In God’s Path Toward Your Destination Volume 2” Building A Personal Relationship With Him If you are looking for a better relationship then I recommend you to read this inspirational book. This inspirational book is available in the format of paperback and Kindle Download for purchase online @ Amazon. Here is the link:



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